It’s a bit of a long-shot to claim that I met my soulmate as a result of finding a natural way of healing the chronic condition I was experiencing around the turn of the century, but my life took on a new direction at that point which opened my eyes, and perhaps more crucially, my heart, enabling me to see and feel things that simply hadn’t entered my consciousness before.
The first of these was food, specifically natural food and its healing power. I’d already undergone surgery and synthetic hormone treatment for endometriosis, and as it started to re-appear less than two years later, I was keen to avoid more of the same. Something prompted me to look outside of conventional medical science. I chanced upon a book about healing endometriosis through nutrition and read and absorbed every page. What I discovered astounded me, because I did heal from the condition with no input from any of the (very lovely) people in the medical community. Why had they not made any mention of food? Why were they considering surgery for me for a second time when changing my diet had the power to resolve my illness?! Over the years, I’ve answered these and other such questions whilst immersing myself in learning about natural food and other means of supporting and promoting natural healing.
All of this changed me and gave me a sense of purpose alongside teaching languages at a Sixth Form College in Cumbria, so when Graham Henry found me again in 2009, I was different from the person he had originally met in Germany in the early 1980s, not just because I was that much older, but because I’d come to new realisations about life and ultimately about him! We’d met as students in Germany and we became friends, meeting up once in the early 90s and otherwise maintaining sporadic contact. If at that time, someone had suggested that we would one day marry, I would have dismissed the suggestion without further consideration. He was a friend, a Yorkshireman .. not very exotic. By 2009 though, I had very different values and priorities, and Graham clearly had depth, sensitivity and a truly beautiful heart. We wasted little time and were married less than two years later.
Together we are a little out of the ordinary. Graham lost weight, a significant weight loss, as he adopted many of my ‘natural food’ eating habits, (which continue to evolve as we do) and the impetus of that discovery prompted us to share with others what we’d discovered for ourselves. We’re a husband and wife team who set out to inspire others who also wish to make life changes. To date we’ve run talks and classes, including meditation classes, but primarily around food, and we provide lunches for those who are curious to know more about the high raw diet we eat. We haven’t finished learning, and I hope we never will. Life throws challenges our way, which have recently included virus-induced chronic fatigue for me. Again, I have looked to heal myself naturally, to bring myself back into balance, and once again, I have had good reason to thoroughly appreciate the power of nature.
Perhaps we can all learn to put more trust in nature? And perhaps we can recognise that we are part of nature and trust ourselves a little more than we typically do?